Thursday, April 7, 2011

Possessive Love Relationship

One of the most magical experiences in one’s life is falling in love. Those butterflies in the stomach and blushy nervousness all make the days of courtship romantic and special. Suddenly we feel completely glued to our partner and it seems that you can’t live apart for even one minute. These emotional bonds of passion, affection, and attachment become the center of our being.

But as you start settling down in a relationship, one partner may suddenly note the behavior partner of the other a bit altered. Small-small matters turn into arguments and the demand on your time is more and more.Even before you completely realize it, you may find yourself caught in an unhealthy relationship.

This possessive love can not only pull you down, but even take you on the path of a downhill relationship. Many times it happens that this possessive love is seen just in the initial phases of a relationship and as the couple starts getting comfortable with each other, this possessiveness mellows down. But sometimes just the opposite happens. The emotional attachment becomes so high, that in place of security; insecurity develops creating problems in the love relationship.

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